ok so in class we talked about how men and women act on dates and how men should or should not pick up the check, im not at all an old fashion kind of girl, and in my opinion when it comes to the bill i say if you want to pay for yourself say so, or if you want to pay for both say so. i wont say no if a guy offers yet at the same time i wont wait till its time to go and see if he just pulls out his wallet, in my relationship with my boyfriend i tend to pay. he pays too, and some times we split, its really just whoever gets to it first, and now that we are used to going out together its kind of like "ok so you, me, split?" thats just kind of how we go about dealing with it.
Another funny thing that i know that came to my mind while we were talking is my roommate has this book, and its called "the rules" in this book it has all the rules that a women should do to get "the guy" and she lives by it, however i don't do that but i still found it very interesting. some examples that the book gives are things such as: if a guy asks you out before Wednesday then its ok to say yes your free for Saturday, however if he asks you out after Wednesday you have to say no, because then he things you are busy and not a loser. Another example is you have to hang up first, don't let the guy know at all that you are interested and in a way seem busy so you cant always talk. this last one is one of my favorites, it makes me laugh every time i hear it: when i guy comes to pick you up at your front door let his wait a bit and then when you go to answer it come to the door a little winded and out of breath and say sorry you forgot and your just getting ready you have been busy all day. so it seems like you haven't been sitting around the house all day waiting for this one date!
i find it funny when girls play games to get a guy to be interested, if he likes you then you will know and if no and you cant tell then he's not worth it in my opinion.
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